I'm sure there are those of you who have experienced this and those who have not. Right now I'm vocalizing because I just want to scream but can't because of my small son in the room. And, brownies and ice cream are not P2 safe.

Anyway, maybe it's my diet, maybe it's my lack of sleep, maybe it's just facts that are being twisted by my spouse but he's being so unsupportive, such a jerk right now...he thinks he's joking around but he's being hurtful. He thinks he's being supportive but all he talks to me about is "why not this", "why not that", "you're kidding me", "can't you eat this"? I told him before all this started that I needed him to be supportive and to leave me alone and not question me because I would get upset easily as my weight and weightloss are very touchy subjects. I'm also constantly being bombarded with food. No wonder I blew up like a balloon. He didn't put the food in my mouth. I just feel like that was my only comfort and now I can't turn to it to ease my frustrations.

I wish I could just fly to Italy and stay there the whole year to dump all this baggage and come back a new person.

Ok, thank you for letting me vocalize. I'm not trying to be dramatic. I hate being told by my spouse that my response to his insensitivity, and quite frankly stupidity, is because of my TOM or to my diet, neither of which are clouding my judgement, in my opinion. Oh, and since it's not my TOM, he chose to use the diet to divert this time.........grrrr.....I'm still fuming over this!!!!!!!

Again, thank you for letting me vent without judgement.

Thanks Lis. Pubah may need cow poke sized cheese logs to handle this misbehavior!

Tree, as you get further into this, it will be easier to stare down temptations. But the support of your DH is going to be needed as well. My advice is don't let him drag you into a debate about why not this and why not that...just say to him it is the way it is. As all men do, he should become bored with the game in time and find some other raw hide bone to chew on. :)). If not, we will sick pu bear on him :))

Thanks tracy, katz and lis. You're all right. I've tried not getting into debates with him as he is relentless at times. But, I have made it clear to him that I will not tolerate this behavior ongoing. He did apologize, but I do anticipate further rounds of his jerkness to arise from the depths of ....well, I'll refrain here...you get my point.
Bottom line, thank you.

i feel for you, im kinda in the same boat, but my boyfriend likes to rub in my face all the food hes eating that i cant ask me all the time to pick him up fast food, or him and his freinds will order pizza and gorge infront of my face, and he had never even commented on my weight lose, everyone else has mentioned it but not him, andhe wants this weekend for football he is making some huge brown sugar, sweet and spicy pork roast and he is institing that i taste it, i told him i cannt cuz of my diet, but he keeps pushing just to try a smallbite, do you think if i put it in my mouth and spit it out , would b considered cheat... i just want him to shut up about it, andi think if i do that hell b quite